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Old Feb 02, 2012, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna View Post
Yes, I wanted to know more ... I got more, more then I bargained for and it changed my entire outlook on T and not for the better.
I prefer the her I had created in my mind... Trouble is once its out there , it's out there. T's are people too ... It puts me in the mind set of Santa and Christmas. As children we believe and it's magical but when we find out the truth... Christmas changes forever. Or when I was a kid I thought teacher slept at school and then you see them stuffin their kids around Walmart , wearing sweat pants, hair in a pony no make up and you realize... They are just like you.
Something's lost and something's gained. Being able to "live in the real world" is one of the aims of therapy.

T might suggest that Santa is a fine fantasy so long as you know he's not real. A healthy mind can accept reality and still fantasize freely.

Or am I wrong about that?
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