Myself,

It is a good explaination and a new perspective. Maybe you should write the thread for him. It just seemed like a slap in the face for my efforts.

Being rejected and isolated from other people is an issue for me and I recognize that but it doesn't make it go away.

Coming to PC at my psychologists urging, has been extremely helpful for me. It has allowed me to give without feeling too vulnerable. It has allowed me to express things that I have trouble expressing - I have anhedonia alot from the abuse. It has allowed me to feel useful and not a throw away. It has allowed me to feel cared about and appreciated.

I do see what you're saying and was unaware that other site require registration fees and didn't know or think what it costs to run this site. It just really hurt to think that I was being excluded because I didn't meet the criteria for "Are you a supporter of PC?" I thought I was but will take this new enlightenment into consideration.

I do still stand behind all of those (and me?) who feel they are being left behind.

((((((((((myself))))))))))))))

Songbird