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Old Feb 02, 2012, 08:53 AM
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Ouch, I can imagine how hurt you must feel. It is very important that you tell your T how you're feeling. Swallowing this hurt will only cause the pain of it to last longer than it needs to.

My T has a no touch policy. He doesn't even shake your hand....and sometimes I'm grateful for that...and other times, I long for some closeness. But I understand why he has the policy....to keep BOTH of us safe so there is no possible violation of boundaries, misunderstandings, etc.
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Thanks for this!
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