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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Soup, I have read that many who have experienced CSA are threatened by touch. Frankly, I still don't enjoy being touched by women I don't know (my s*xual abuse was done by a woman). I cannot really imagine having a woman T, but if I did, my guess is that I would not want her to touch me. Ever.
I think many T's err on the side of caution and ASSUME that a CSA will be threatened by touch.
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Thanks MKAC - yes I can understand that (although I have no memories of CSA I have never let my T touch me - well once his hand brushed mine by accident when we both reached over to get the door handle and that was bad enough).
But Nelliecat said that her T had been using touch before and was now wanting to alter that boundary - I can see how that can be confusing and hurtful. SD