I agree. It's very confusing and hurtful. I mean, look at me, I'm generally all purposely ambivalent towards my T, I would never admit to attachment blah blah..... and yet I am now ragingly angry thinking about how he used to pat my back and now he's (maybe) stopped. I can only imagine how this affects people whose first reaction isn't anger. It has got to hurt like hell, because I'm pretty sure that I AM hurt now.

I think I need to add this to my list of things to talk about on Monday. I am finding it impossible to let this go. I am also super-pissed at Nellie's T too. I am an angrybutton this morning.