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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
Why are T's more cautious touching (well out of those who do touch) with those who have experienced CSA. If touch is something that is grounding and reassuring for them, then what's wrong with it?
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For some touch is grounding, but for others it can be very triggering. My T will touch me, but he always tells me ahead of time that he is going to. Touch was abusive for me, so his asking is a way of respecting my boundaries and giving me the opportunity to say no if that is what I need to do.