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Originally Posted by Nelliecat
CSA was brought up and she has said she now needs to be very careful about touch. No hand holding or hugging like before and now I feel like she's abandoning me too, she doesn't want to touch me.
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Oh WOW. This would completely unravel me, for sure.
I know it FEELS like "I'm to horrible and dirty so T won't touch me", but I am positive that the reality is that T is thinking "I have to be careful with Nelliecat because I don't want to trigger or scare or hurt her". Which is, ironically, exactly what she's done.
I know how hard it will be to bring this up with her, but I hope you can find a way to do it. Could you write it down?
You are NOT horrible, I promise. You are in a confusing situation with T that needs to be worked through.
Lots and lots of
to you
