SAWE, this made me smile I don't think my T has a problem sharing. And I'm thinking he can't have a problem sharing her love, given the very frequent texting, my cards by her bed, getting me presents... If anything he should be loving his clients in retaliation!... I do sometimes wonder what he makes of it all. But she can be open about it, so I guess he could/would too.

The strangest part for me is the concept that feelings can be 'boundaries'. I can't imagine not feeling love just because it was a boundary for me. We feel what we feel