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Originally Posted by kitten16
It's actually kind of a rare and risky thing for T's to actually admit that they've been thinking about you. I think it's their (sometimes unconscious) way of admitting that you're important to them, and not just in therapy. It's really a HUGE step for a therapist to make.
It's not just us clients who make big steps along the way. Therapists develop too. This is significant! Rejoice!
I'm envious!  ))
k. |
Eh, maybe. My T has been everywhere on the spectrum from cool and clinical to seriously stretching boundaries toward "friend" (she actually contemplated a post-therapy friendship). She seems to genuinely like me and the feeling is mutual. She has told me she loves me several times.
I feel best with a friendly approach with good boundaries. The friendship thing was too much. I like it now: solid boundaries, good listening, helping me find answers, email once in a while, hugs, and the occasional "I love you."
I just want a little more physical affection and I'm going to advocate for that next session.
