that's great you have evidence of your T thinking of you something to hold on to also when any doubt comes up ever So what do you think, will you try your T's church? it seems as though you've got a good balance going on with her now with that friendly approach plus boundaries

I remember once being given a task of writing down what I believe as far as faith is concerned, in a lot more detail than just saying "i believe" and then looking at why I believed it. It wasn't a T thing but it helped at the time ... and probably something I should do again