Me too. What everyone else is saying. I wrote my most horrible thing down ahead of time and handed it to him. He read it and asked if I was able to talk about it. I couldn't talk AT ALL at that point and just shook my head NO. He talked for a while and then slowly got me to talk. I still cannot discuss specific incidences of what I wrote down, but T says we will get there. Good luck with this. Let us know what your T says in response to the email.