Dude, 13 yrs is technically old enough to BE your mother. Thanks for being honest with me. Sorry for being a pest. I felt like you were waiting for me to respond to your last thread about the reasonable request? I hope this all explains what was going on with me, as to why I didn't respond. I knew you had to have a conversation about your past relationships and how they relate to your request and I didn't want to interfere with the therapeutic tension; I think the conversation will be ongoing and wish you hope, insight, and success.