Well, not trying to be funny here, but really, there are limits to what someone else will do for us. I was working late one night and when I went to leave, I saw a skunk. I called the campus police and the guy said, hey, lady, I ain't gonna take a faceful of skunk spray for you - either go out a different door or wait a while, he'll probably leave himself. I just wasn't thinking clearly, it was well after midnight! I would ask you to go back to my post that starts "this isn't about T's responsibility" and answer each
question I asked, at least to yourself. I get the details of what happened. I think it's safer somehow for you to focus on how these details are "broken" and can never be fixed, and say you now distrust your T, than to say, well, T is not perfect, but the details of my PAST are what were truly broken, and T, though imperfect, CAN help me be angry at THOSE perpetrators?

Oh - but if T is not angry at MT, maybe he won't take your side against your abusers? THAT MAKES SENSE!!! That makes perfect sense to me! What a douche! No, just kidding! But is that really the point?