Jamielow don't allow the circumstances and your ex-partner ruin your life. Yes - it does feel crappy and you have the right to feel all that comes. But just keep in mind, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. And you will get through the tunnel. Separation is not the end of your life. Separation is the beginning of a new life. We have to get rid of things that don't serve us anymore in order that new things can come into our life. In this respect, you are free and your life is about to begin again.