j, yes i think we are lost ppl when we first get sober. we've numbed who we are. it's no wonder we feel lost. when we sober up we don't know ourselves. that's part of getting sober-the discovery of self. so abide with that feeling until you find yourself. it may take time but know we've been there too. i took a psychological test early in sobriety. i only answered 1 question that indicated anything bout who i was. the other 19 indicated i had no idea!
just keep going in the right direction. everything will be revealed as you grow in sobriety.