This is a part that drives me a little crazy. My T isn't completly closed off, I think she realizes that to get anywhere with me, I need to know she's a person. I'm not only not used to talking about myself but I'm very good at avoiding myself as a topic of conversation. So when I get to T my natural instinct is to turn the conversation off me -and onto the only other person in the room. It leads to some tricky business when I don't want to talk about me and she won't talk about her. I guess I understand why there's limited disclosure on her end -even if I wish she wasn't as stubborn as I am sometimes