i think i would be a lot less obsessed with my t if she self disclosed more. i always find myself wondering what she does in her spare time, what her hobbies are, what her weekends look like, what shows she watches, etc. the funny thing is though, it's not that she DOESN'T self disclose. i guess it just has never come up? for all i know she may be willing to tell me every last detail of her personal life. i have just never asked.

to those of you who have t's that self disclose, how did you know that? did you flat out ask them questions about their personal lives and they answered? and to those of you who have t's that don't self disclose, is it because you asked and got rejected? i don't know whether my t self discloses or not, is that weird??? i want her to though, more than anything.