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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
But what if I allow these feelings to develop, maybe it would allow me to be more open with T - but then it is a business arrangement isn't it? How does that work? I don't share with my doctor, dentist, car mechanic that I love them (not that I do love them of course  ) but how can I feel for someone who is doing a job for me - it just doesn't make sense. |
I wonder this all the time. Everybody says its a relationship and not just a business arrangement and I get that because it is BUT it is a relationship that is so so so important to us as the client so its scary. I try try try to think of it as, yes this is her job but hey, we all have to have jobs. we have to make money to live and she is no different. she just gets to make money at something that is really important to her, which is helping people and caring about people. if you have a good T i dont think they can be good and it just be a job to them. they cant go through the motions and be a good T. i dont where im going with this....theres alot more i wanted to say but the words arent forming together...imagine that! story of my life! either way, i know how you feel.
