Hi Justme, I lived with a sick mother, and I cared for her wellbeing, but her cruelty was too much. I actually think living with someone who has mental issues can make another person ill too, and vice versa.

Met a man once at a group meeting for schitzophrenia patient family members. His wife had this; after I observed that man's attitudes and speech I thought, "No Wonder She's Sick." He was enough to drive anyone over a clift. Just rambling here. Do hope you will take care of yourself, and put your priorties first.

Hugs, bj