And Soup, as an example with my thread on why I love the PC forum, teasing pbutton and stopdog was a way to let them know I really wanted their opinion, and valued their input, when my guess was that they would be uncomfortable using the term "love" or expressing a strong emotion about something. So it was a way of saying, "hey, please join in, even if I've worded this in a way you'd rather I didn't."