I tossed my bras out back in 1996 ... Talk about a freeing (no pun intended) experience ... I'm a big girl too ... I don't have boobs, I have udders ... At any rate, I've gotten so used to not wearing one that I'll never go there again ... Ever ... !!!
I had a guy ask me during a poker tournament where in the hell my bra was, I came right back at him and asked him if he was wearing a jock strap ... Embarrassed the hell out of him (of course he wasn't wearing one) ... I told him that when men started wearing jock straps 24/7 I'd start wearing a bra ... The whole table roared with laughter and he didn't utter another word about my udders ever again ... !!!