*miht trigger for mention of SA*
I have a best friend, shes truly a wonderful friend..in all other things..weve been friends since middle school and shes one of the few people that know my secrets...she lives far awaym, but in one of my *crisises* I told her i needed to talk to somebody (and im too shy to call my T or email my T)
she knows about my SA. I told her the other day, that I re-experienced something frmo SA in my head and I was really scared,, and I didnt want to make the conversation akward so I was like "oh whatever blah its ok..anyway..." and she was like "Dont wory..everything will change when u meet a nice guy"..
and im 100% deathly afraid of a man just looking at me 100 feet away from me...
I should have saved this conversation for my T
Has this ever happened to u...people said stuff that didnt really help at all....or they just didnt understand (even if they meant well)