A group facilitator described one of the members as "dictatorial", and although we suggested that other words might be more appropriate, he stuck to it.

Yes, I mean a certain amount of suger-coating is important to me, otherwise I feel offended and turn off. Isaid, ""You seem to choose harsh words deliberately. I wouldn't say those words to you unless I was actually trying to hurt you." That facilitator did not respond to my concerns, and I left that group.