I am quiet too- should rename myself the lurker:-) Nice to know I am not the only one.
Ppl here are great though and can give you some valid advice/support. So its great that you have been able to reach out.
I don't see whats wrong with wanting to feel connection with you T. Have you tried texting/mailing T? That way T can get to you when she/he has time.

Just a thought...