So I have this friend (neighbor) who is two years older than me that just moved about 45 minutes away and she comes home on random weekends. She texted me today to see if I was around this weekend and I told her not really cuz I have a lot going on. I told her I already had plans tonight cuz some people were dragging me out as long as I got enough studying done today. Then tomorrow I am volunteering because there is a new training I have to go to until 4 and then when I get back I have to study and prep for my interviews this week. I have a huge job interview on Monday (I say huge because I really want the job) and another interview Tuesday. I just found out about both interviews at like 5 last night so pretty short notice. I also take my first part of the CPA exam (which is really hard if you don't know much about it) on Wednesday and I'm starting to freak out over everything in the next four days. All she said back to me was "ok...i'll just stop asking u to do stuff cuz its obvi a waste of time." How is that going to help anything??? I feel so guilty right now, but she never gives me a heads up and expects me to drop everything whenever she comes home! Does it make me a bad person or selfish to try and focus on everything I have going on this week instead of spending time with her??? I just feel like a horrible person now