You have to remember that everyone doesn't feel things as intensely as you. That and he is a man...he probably figured you just needed some time to blow off some steam, as do most men need. Don't take it personally that it didn't bother him enough to hate you. He could just be playing it cool too. There are different reasons for everything and until you hear it from his mouth you can sit here and think until your brain is mush about all the possibilities and all the different ways you would do things. Take the "I don't hate you" at face value, it sounds like it was his peace offering to me.