Thanks for sharing, and welcome. First off, fom the sound of it, it sounds like your wife definitely has some form of OCD, but also may suffer from a combination of Shizophrenia(hearing voices and hallucinations are often a clear giveaway symptom of this) and perhaps also explosive temper disorder (I think I'm saying it wrong). If anything, I would at least try counseling first, both as a couple and also individually. It sounds like she has a lot of issues that if sorted out, you two could probably work things out in the long run. Good luck!