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Originally Posted by Kiya
Then as we are "in the closure process" (from HELL i might add), you tell me you want me to tell you all the good things I am taking away- "since you were so articulate in telling me what all I did wrong, Kiya".
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Kiya...WTF? OMG! Holy freakin' *****. Sounds like your T is asking for an ego boost. This is nuts.
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Originally Posted by Kiya
Today, you send me a reply saying thanks for that... and instead of the title being "Re: You are still my person" it said "Closure work".
She took out "you are still my person".
She took it out. She's no longer my person. just like that. a cut to the heart. Another contradiction. she says "Were in a relationship that goes on". she gave me a stupid gorilla holding a heart.
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Okay. That is just cruel.
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Originally Posted by mcl6136
During my most awful moments with my T, what I noticed was that my T would reflect back to me, THE MOST NEGATIVE ASPECTS of what I said about my life. None of the growth, the triumphs, the stretching that I did, just the negative.
For example, when I said, well, my job is going really well lately, and I've raised more than 180K for my organization, and I have put new computer systems in place, but I don't know if I want to work there long term....T would say "so you're just surviving in your job."
And I would be like....WTF?
Or, I would say....I've gone out on a few dates...I felt more comfortable with the whole endeavor, though it's still a stretch....my T replied ..."So, you're not really connecting in an intimate way." Well, not yet....but could I please have another few days to work on this???? Sheesh!
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Oh.My.God...your T's behavior is completely unacceptable, MCL. You were making progress and your T squashed it. Completely minimized and trivialized it. Now I get what your other post was about. This is awful. I'm so sorry this happened to you!
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Originally Posted by Kiya
Anywho - I ended up going to the ER yesterday instead of my apnt because I was a wreck and in crisis. So, now, I am in partial hospitalization for at least 10-12 days. Thanks T. Glad I could count on session being helpful.
Glad that is over.
Glad I am getting treatment daily, 6 days a week.
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I'm also glad you are getting help. I want to kick your T's @ss.
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Originally Posted by Kiya
Partial hosp is interesting... some triggers and one I needed to remove myself from - but then my therapist found me (was coming to get me anyway) and so that helped. Today wasn't o bad - but slightly boring  Then we did some art. I like art. Yet that particular group therapist reminds me a LOT of my old T. *sigh* Ah well, they can't all be perfect |
I really am glad you are getting some help, but unfortunately, no they can't all be perfect. Good luck to you!