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Originally Posted by BrokenCloud
Well, when I started feeling as if I was second rate, I'd just quietly back away a bit ... I'd involve myself in other interests and wait for a call ...
If a call did come and it was something I was interested in doing, I'd participate ... If I wasn't interested, I'd pass ...
Those who are real friends will continue to call ... Those who aren't will eventually quit calling ...
They'll realize that you aren't willing to just sit there waiting for a last minute call or invite, and they'll find someone else to fill that role ...
In the meantime, you'll be building self esteem which eventually will lead you to see that you deserve friends who will treat your friendship like the gift and treasure that it is ...
All of us deserve to be treated with dignity and respect ... Never forget that ... And never, ever settle for less ... !!!
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Yeah, I'm backing away too, but I don't wanna sit around waiting for one of them to ask me to go out or something. Because then they can be like: well, you never ask to meet up as well so why would we?
It just makes me feel like I'm not worth it, like I'm good to have around when other people aren't but when someone else is there I can go.
And I wanna talk to her about it, but I don't know if that's a good idea. It's not a good idea to not talk about it cuz it actually is getting me like depressed :/