I am older than him, I am 27, he is 25.

I am not sure if he would be upset about me posting this, but I spoke to him today and he was in a bad way, and dropped down, clutching the wall, etc. crying. Then went in his bedroom. His room is in a bad way, he is negleting himself, and his room.

He keeps saying that it is too late, it is too late, and when I ask why, he just says his age, he wasted his years, due to not being normal, now it is too late.
He has never had a girlfreind, never done things socially, from 18 to 25, he reckons he has been in his own world, for the best part of his life, which prevented this, and he just can not bear to risk failing to try at his age

He is also insecure about his looks, telling me that he has been told by random people that a girl wouldn't sleep with him even if he paid them a million dollars for it, (lol)

I told him there is nothjing wrong with his looks, but he isn't convinced. I have a few pictures of him if you want to see, but I really don't think he should take notice of these nasty people

I haven't mentioned the letter to him yet, waiting for the right time

Junip, could you tell me what things he wrote were parallel to your problems?

Cheers