ACQPL, Sorry you are having a down day. The young lady who added a burden to you by not understanding with sensitivity is called "being an imperfect human." I think we all fit into that catagory.

Yes, I lost my closest friend of many years a couple of years ago. Incredible sadness, but I cherish the fact we both loved one another, she always made me smile and I admired who she was so much. I spoke to her quite often in her last year, living miles apart unfortunately. She already had her diagnosis that last year of her life and I knew beating the odds was not likely.

Hope you feel better soon. hugs, bj