geez, i read back and saw the thread about you considering returning either to old T or the marriage T; I gather from this it's to old T what you raised is definitely a part I find difficult as well; where sometimes it ends up that therapy ends up being more about the relationship between you and the T rather than why you are there in the first place. I hope this time round with old T it is different somehow; that going back you are able to work on what you are needing to go back for; and that things with old T go well and that there is less heartache and more ... good stuff?