Congratulations! I am glad you decided to give us the good news. How fantastic! All relationships have rocky times, they make the good times all that much more sweet.

As far as the forum falling apart. It won't happen. There are too many people here who love this place too much to let it happen. There are too much happy news to be shared and sadness to be comforted. We will pull through. Now the question is "Have you set the date yet?"
Carrie

<font color=green>But the implicit and usually unconscious bargain we make with ourselves is that, yes, we want to be healed, we want to be made whole, we're willing to go some distance, but we're not willing to question the fundamental assumptions upon which our way of life has been built, both personally and societally.--Bill Plotkin, Soulcraft