I am so lost. I'm 29 female married 5yrs. Love him to death. But I'm having the female version of "can't get it up". I want to have sex, but I never seem to be turned on except when it's not possible to get together (in public, etc). The "fun" part about this is with my diagnoses of Bipolar, Borderline, and Panic...every medical professional I have seen (family doc, obgyn) promptly stops taking notes upon discovering these disorders and chalks it up to "it's in your head". Gee, thanks. I have gotten my meds down to the ones that cause the least amout of sexual side effects that I can. This has been a recurrent problem over the last couple of years, and is HIGHLY disturbing for me that it is back. Things had been smooth sailing in this category for at least 6months..so I feel totally knocked down a peg to be back in this rut. Does anyone else have these problems?