To the poster...Go with what you feel...You never know unless you make an effort...However, be prepared for several hurtles down the line...Having a great personality is good and all, but think of the big picture...I'm 33...And while I'm not totally against dating someone younger than me, I realize that people of the opposite sex who are in a different age bracket as I, there are things in life they won't be able to relate with me on...Having a young tender who is 20? PLEASE! LOL...There is no thought process involved in the decision to fool around with someone at that age, but to have a serious committed relationship with said person may be another story...It all depends on where that person is in life...What their goals are...How mature they are...Life experiences...Again, 33 isn't too bad of a age gap...There is no harm in asking her out...Go from there...See where her head is at and decide what kind of relationship there could possibly be. Age doesn't define everything...There are men my age who I feel aren't mature enough to be with me...And at the same time, I've met younger men who have themselves together more than someone my age...Again, I would say to give it a try and see what happens....There's no harm in that...
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