LOL!! There is no good way I suppose What I meant to say was that the EFT with marriage T I experienced put me off balance and I found it emotionally and mentally exhausting. I felt 'numb'. Why is this a good thing??? Because it's better than feeling nothing. I need to weed through these repressed feelings that are holding me back and it's exhausting to say the least but I'm happy that I think this may be my answer. Fingers crossed