Not unless you really want to change & are willing to do the hard work that it takes to make the changes. Miracles only happen to those people who want them.

Sounds like you are in a difficult position......if you are in Therapy, it would be a good thing to talk to your Therapist about. My husband that I left after 33 years of marriage never wanted to change.....he thought I would just continue tolerating him for the rest of my life.....but I had enough & couldn't stand him any longer. It came as a surprise to him as he never thought I would leave.....but it wasn't enough to bring him to change what was destroying the marriage.

Life is a process of defining what we want & what we need to be like to get ourselves to be what we want. It can change over time.....but any change always requires some level of self-change that takes work. Wishing you the best in your future.