Maybe you spoil him by doing too much for him. I wonder if you backed off and did your own thing for a bit, if he'd suddenly feel in the mood. Maybe, he feels like your mothering him a little with all the things you do for him everyday. I'm not a dude, but I'm channeling one now and maybe he takes it as if you're telling him that you don't think he can do all that stuff for himself........like he's incapable, hence, not a man. Maybe, you are too available for him, and he'd like a little challenge. Did you do all that stuff for him in the beginning of the relationship? Come on, men, help me out........we don't understand you guys, and we need a clue.