Um...ive never really had this problem but then ive always got on with guys pretty well (better than women in most instances) and i was raised solely amongst boys (4 boy cousins who have always been a major part of my life and a brother) so perhaps this helps me relate to men a bit better but i don't think thats really what it comes down too. I know what you mean about understanding them sometimes - they can definately be an enigma. I certainly find them more to the point and hell of a lot more impulsive. And don't get me started on their sense of humour lol Perhaps we're not supposed to get the other sex entirely, but in terms of communication i certainly wish i spoke 'man' a bit better haha