Sometimes I think that therapists don't respond because they are as confused and uncomfortable as most us are when someone compliments us. . . . ie. What does this person mean when they say this?

Personally, I think it's a knowledgable and confident therapist who is able to respond to comments like this. It isn't just about him/her saying, "thanks!" It's about him/her acknowledging the feeling and then exploring what it means to the client. I know I'm not making a lot of sense here, but it truly is a therapist who is comfortable in their skin who is able to address and explore any and ALL topics brought up by the client. I think our therapists can be really good in some areas but when it comes to compliments and expressions of love and connection that a lot get as squirmy as the rest of us!