One of the main reasons I like PC is that we all have the ability to write out our struggles, ask for suggestions and explore what others offer to us in responses. I know I always learn something new when a different opinion is offered. I sincerely hope that I don't come across as strongly disagreeing with what anyone else says.

Ultimately, we each have to make decisions that are best for us. What any of us suggests/offers to another might not match up to some of the more personal details that aren't provided by the OP.