I feel that way daily. I feel like since my husband works all day he should come home to a nice clean home everyday. The fast few months have been so hard for me to do anything. I do good to get up and take a shower. I really get so anxious when i cant get up and clean the house and do the laundry. I feel like a failure as a wife and mother. Ive been feeling this way all day today. Blah..it just sucks.