I can't say it any better unhappyguy, Great advice. Why the drama? I can understand you being upset with a 4 year old, I take care of my granddaughter that is 2 almost 3 they can be a handful. Why are you so unhappy? You really would not want to see your daughter or husband throwing a fit like that would you? Daughter I could see, husband now that would be very humorous just think about it! Take care, I wish you well, and stop beating your self up over it, It happened now move on make tomorrow a better day!