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Old Feb 09, 2012, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Exkav View Post
it's so strange, since in real life he behaves as if I hated me.
Hi, Exkav, I was interested in this little unconscious mistake you made, should be "as if he hated me"?

I think your dream is your unconscious telling you the friendship might not be over, your conscious feelings that he does not care for you anymore, not quite correct. You apparently have a longer history together and I would look at that history, why you are friends and remember what he likes about you, as well as what you like about him. You could be feeling insecure with yourself? That you are not worth being friends with? (and which might have caused the mistake above?). The dream is telling you that you are someone others can care about, your friend did (and could possibly still) but whether your friend has a problem or not with the friendship, it should not hurt your relationship with yourself; you should be your own best friends.

In dreams, we often are all the characters because it is our dream we are making up. So, that your best friend was caressing you, that is you enjoying you, you must learn to love yourself first.
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