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Old Feb 09, 2012, 12:16 PM
Stardustedforever
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Originally Posted by BorderlineBrittany View Post
I am a very sexual person... My head seems to go all over the place... It goes from wanting to have sex with pretty much anyone I see then to a relationship with them if they are relationship material (not marriered, male all that)
I am usually always horny.. I dont understand whats wrong with me... Talking about sex also gets me turned on.. Porn.. It alll.... I want a relationship with someone but i cant hold it in.. i always give in.. i tried masterbating.. its not as good... i like the personal contact...
People with BPD tend to be highly sexual. I can give you my biological theories regarding the amygdala, poor emotional control, extreme neediness and freudian sexual development but I won't.

You cannot control fantasies or thoughts but you can control behavior. Start with figuring out what your core values are regarding sex and go from there.