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Originally Posted by Harley47
I would want to be well in love with the person before I even considered a sexual aspect to the relationship, but to be fair, I am very "old fashioned" in regards to these things, and I can only offer my opinion on it. I would just tell you that if/when you decide to be with this guy, be sure you're comfortable with it, be sure it's not under a sense of "duty" to him or as a means to give him what you think he wants, and be sure it's safe. 
I do hope others can offer their perspective on things, and I hope I was of some help. Good luck to you. |
Thanks! I am very old fashion. I am also a virgin and sometimes I wonder if I am going too slow. Even my best friend has swiped her v-card and I always thought that I would do it first. I thought that I would lose it to one of my best guy friends, but by the time we were seriously considering it, I fell out of love . =/ I just don't know when I'm going to find the right person, or how I'm going to know when it feels right.