There's no rush to lose it. To me, it seems society makes such a big fuss about "swiping the v-card" (going to have to borrow that line for day to day conversations. Thanks ) that it puts a tremendous amount of pressure on people our age to swipe it at the first possible...er, ATM, shall we say, to keep with the analogy. But that's not at all how it should work. Besides being a dangerous way to lose it, sex, especially the first time (at least in my opinion) should be something very special and treasured.

So, if I were you, follow the advice given, especially Lido's and Lynn's. Take things slow, and talk it out with this guy. Just make sure you're comfortable with this and that this is something you both want to do.