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Originally Posted by Leed
There are also a LOT of risks in having casual sex -- such as STD's, pregnancy, etc. So make SURE you can talk to this person BEFORE having sex to make sure he's been tested for HIV, that he will use a condom, etc. You must be responsible. No, it's not very romantic to have this discussion, but it's very important and necessary.
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We are both very open about our sexual experiences. I would like to ask him to get tested--I'm not positive how he'll react, but I'm sure he'll do it--how would i go about asking?
Also, my friend said that using condoms hurt because it dries out and causes friction. My best friend also said that her boyfriend can't "feel it" when he uses a condom.
I have about a gazillion generic condoms, would using some brand Ultra Ultra Ultra Ultra thin-and-loobey condom be better? You would think that they would all work fine. I'm on bc for other reasons, but I don't want to tell him because I don't want him to think that we don't need condoms. Does he have a right to know? Should I tell him anyway?