Trippin2.0, Maybe the bossy thing comes from being short? I was pretty bossy and demanding when I was a child, some people have said. Maybe people still think I am? I know I am still always the shortest one. lol! The selective memory is ok, I think because we all see things differently and it is a way to protect our self. In my mind I was shy, now I am told people thought I was stuck up. Oh well I just try and like myself as I do have to live with me! Take care.