Everyone is AWESOME and thanks so much for your thoughts and yes I would love to hear more from any one.
There is NO Wrong here cause I asked your opinion to all. Know what though I find that is interesting even those without DID have that problem like CluelessBlonde1 said and by the way I don't think you are clueless, cluelessBlonde, just my own opinion.
I so thank ya'll for responding to my question and anyone else that wants to add to this , please do share.
It always surprises me how I feel about how dumb I think something is but asked it anyway and then ppl "get" what I am saying...... all ya'll have been so helpful.

times a million = YOU, yes, YOU that are reading this.
Be well and safe,

Crew